Here in sunny California, there are families of Mexican descent who’ve been here longer than my white ancestors. There are also people who arrive here everyday from Mexico, often without much in the way of resources.
I have a friend who’s Mexican-American by descent but her family’s been in the US for several generations. She has brown skin. Her English is as native as mine. She works in IT and can get more performance out of cheap-ass computers than anyone I’ve known. But on a recent trip to the eye doctor, he leaned in as if speaking to someone hard of hearing and asked her in a tone of Great White Concern: “Do you have insurance to cover this prescription?”
Because we white people have heard Mexican-Americans are frequently uninsured or something (sorry, one of the kids yelled over part of the soundbyte, but we’re sure it was that you’re all downtrodden and stuff). We worry about you, you know. Our way of showing that we care is to single you out for special assumptions attention and make ourselves feel good about a total non-deed let you know we’re here for you. Isn’t that nice of us?
Sarcasm aside, I’ve never had a doctor ask me if I was insured. I have had them ask which insurance company I’m with. It’s a slight shift in meaning, but oh so telling.
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A friend of mine had a similar experience signing up for WIC. She has a first name that could be from several cultures, an Anglo-Saxon last name, and a sand-encrusted West Coast accent. She received courteous treatment when she called to set her appointment, but the same caseworker told her to come back with an interpreter before she had even sat down at said appointment.
After she got past that misunderstanding (without an apology), the caseworker started a spiel about studying for the GED. Because if you look mestizo and you have kids, you must be uneducated. Don’t worry. We’re here to help.
My friend has a bachelor’s degree.
Jenny Islander(Quote) (Reply)
My sister received similar behavior when she applied for ACCHS & still gets half her paperwork in Spanish. Yet her looks clearly favor the Scots-Irish side of our family.
My post c-section hospital paperwork was in Spanish as were the 1st halves of most conversations with the multitude of hospital bureaucrats. I expected it since my appearance favors the Greek side of our family.
AZ like other places is chock full of such “oops!”
TANJ(Quote) (Reply)