Comments on: Niceness privilege http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/ so you think you don't have any Sat, 04 Feb 2012 17:07:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: andy http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-2194 andy Mon, 02 Jan 2012 13:51:54 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-2194 im 37 just relized i was like alot of you beat,neglected,abused my hole life shit over 35 years.my mother everyone love nicest person lol she watched heard was told about my sis and dad and brothers pulled there shit.getten stoned drunk and playing doc with sis around 5 ys old was cool to i didnt know how to be a parent but the nice x-wife held it together.my fam loved her.now i cant see my kids or even talk to them after calling them on there shit.my family testedfied agenst me saying my mental stabuilty was uncertin and think i might use drugs.a long story at first i was ashamed took all i had to tell now i get in there face and call them on it.now im a pysco so on and so on.this payday im heading in for my polygraph test getting copys sending to the fam and there friends then posting it on my facebook.i will be fair i will pay for there test if they pass.lol assholes.i wont go down this time. i like reading that im not alone these posts may have saved me even though i wish noone on here had to be.i would like to hear any thing about NICE WAYS of kicken the shit out of these assholes im 37 just relized i was like alot of you beat,neglected,abused my hole life shit over 35 years.my mother everyone love nicest person lol she watched heard was told about my sis and dad and brothers pulled there shit.getten stoned drunk and playing doc with sis around 5 ys old was cool to i didnt know how to be a parent but the nice x-wife held it together.my fam loved her.now i cant see my kids or even talk to them after calling them on there shit.my family testedfied agenst me saying my mental stabuilty was uncertin and think i might use drugs.a long story at first i was ashamed took all i had to tell now i get in there face and call them on it.now im a pysco so on and so on.this payday im heading in for my polygraph test getting copys sending to the fam and there friends then posting it on my facebook.i will be fair i will pay for there test if they pass.lol assholes.i wont go down this time.
i like reading that im not alone these posts may have saved me even though i wish noone on here had to be.i would like to hear any thing about NICE WAYS of kicken the shit out of these assholes

]]> By: Red http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1914 Red Thu, 20 Jan 2011 22:39:56 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1914 If I had Christmas's like that person, I'd be bitter, too. If anything, I'd feel bad for that person that their family can't let it go for JUST ONE DAY and enjoy the season together. Then I'd invite them to a Christmas party made up of friends where we can all have fun and away from such drama. If I had Christmas’s like that person, I’d be bitter, too.

If anything, I’d feel bad for that person that their family can’t let it go for JUST ONE DAY and enjoy the season together. Then I’d invite them to a Christmas party made up of friends where we can all have fun and away from such drama.

]]> By: Red http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1913 Red Thu, 20 Jan 2011 22:13:25 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1913 Uhh... do I wanna KNOW what kind of person your 'nice' uncle is? On your uncle's brother: Aw, one of those 'prickly on the outside, sweet on the inside' types. I like him already! Uhh… do I wanna KNOW what kind of person your ‘nice’ uncle is?

On your uncle’s brother: Aw, one of those ‘prickly on the outside, sweet on the inside’ types. I like him already!

]]> By: Red http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1912 Red Thu, 20 Jan 2011 22:10:10 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1912 Ah, the case of 'judging a book by it's cover'. A commonly held belief that if someone 'looks' nice, then they much BE nice. I'm sure a lot of people thought L. Ron Hubbard was 'nice', with his ascot and perfectly groomed hair. But things like practicing medicine without a license, abuse, tax evasion and praying on the minds and souls of the lonely and desperate to suck them dry of money, will and sense of self is NOT nice by ANY stretch. Ah, the case of ‘judging a book by it’s cover’. A commonly held belief that if someone ‘looks’ nice, then they much BE nice.

I’m sure a lot of people thought L. Ron Hubbard was ‘nice’, with his ascot and perfectly groomed hair. But things like practicing medicine without a license, abuse, tax evasion and praying on the minds and souls of the lonely and desperate to suck them dry of money, will and sense of self is NOT nice by ANY stretch.

]]> By: T. O. Patrick http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1574 T. O. Patrick Tue, 05 Oct 2010 11:48:31 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1574 Can I just tell you that I love you and your sites? I regularly read something that makes me rethink and reconsider and learn. Thank you. I am indeed privileged to be able to read this. Can I just tell you that I love you and your sites? I regularly read something that makes me rethink and reconsider and learn. Thank you. I am indeed privileged to be able to read this.

]]> By: Derangierte Einsichten - Privilegien, illustriert http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1573 Derangierte Einsichten - Privilegien, illustriert Tue, 05 Oct 2010 11:47:35 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1573 [...] nur wegen dem gehört wird, der sie äußert. Wo es ausnahmsweise mal keine Entschuldigung ist, nett zu sein. Und der Privilegierte kann gar nicht anders: er versteht es nicht. Vielleicht fuchst es [...] [...] nur wegen dem gehört wird, der sie äußert. Wo es ausnahmsweise mal keine Entschuldigung ist, nett zu sein. Und der Privilegierte kann gar nicht anders: er versteht es nicht. Vielleicht fuchst es [...]

]]> By: GardenGoblin http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1545 GardenGoblin Thu, 30 Sep 2010 16:02:50 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1545 Some people can't get it through their heads that you can be innocent and not nice just as you can be nice and not innocent. I have an uncle who is 'nice'. He cultivates that image. That's why people are willing to trust him with their children. Those of us who know better are looked upon as creating disharmony, and therefore we aren't 'nice' to that 'sweet old man'. Conversely, his brother is not 'nice'. He swears, drinks, smuggles illegal fireworks, has tattoos, long hair, and a somewhat scraggly beard. Looks scary as hell. The last time I visited with him I witnessed him get in the face of a street harasser, told him he should be ashamed of himself, made him apologize to the lady (who incidentally, was not someone society would generally consider to be a 'lady') and stood there until the harasser followed the order to get lost. Definitely not 'nice'. Most assuredly awesome. Some people can’t get it through their heads that you can be innocent and not nice just as you can be nice and not innocent.

I have an uncle who is ‘nice’. He cultivates that image. That’s why people are willing to trust him with their children. Those of us who know better are looked upon as creating disharmony, and therefore we aren’t ‘nice’ to that ‘sweet old man’.

Conversely, his brother is not ‘nice’. He swears, drinks, smuggles illegal fireworks, has tattoos, long hair, and a somewhat scraggly beard. Looks scary as hell. The last time I visited with him I witnessed him get in the face of a street harasser, told him he should be ashamed of himself, made him apologize to the lady (who incidentally, was not someone society would generally consider to be a ‘lady’) and stood there until the harasser followed the order to get lost. Definitely not ‘nice’. Most assuredly awesome.

]]> By: Jennifer Kesler http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1230 Jennifer Kesler Mon, 10 May 2010 16:36:16 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1230 LOL, go for it! LOL, go for it!

]]> By: Aconite http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1227 Aconite Mon, 10 May 2010 08:05:12 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1227 Hey, I've been reading through your archives and came across this post only recently. <i>"See all evil, hear all evil, fight all evil"</i> Jennifer, I hope you don't mind but I am going to have that motto tattooed somewhere on my personage! =D Hey, I’ve been reading through your archives and came across this post only recently.

“See all evil, hear all evil, fight all evil”

Jennifer, I hope you don’t mind but I am going to have that motto tattooed somewhere on my personage! =D

]]> By: Adam http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/comment-page-1/#comment-1174 Adam Wed, 24 Mar 2010 06:21:59 +0000 http://whatprivilege.com/niceness-privilege/#comment-1174 Very well put. When I was first dealing with memories of horrendous abuse, I learned the hard way that 99% of people DON'T want to hear it. Even one's friends. Very well put. When I was first dealing with memories of horrendous abuse, I learned the hard way that 99% of people DON’T want to hear it. Even one’s friends.

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